Honeymoon Part I: Borneo

After getting married at the courthouse, Kevin and I embarked on three and a half week honeymoon adventure with the first destination being a National Geographic Expedition in Borneo. But first, we had a long way to get there. Our flight left on Wednesday, April 5, at 1:45am to Hong Kong and after a short layover we continued on to Kota Kinabalu in Malaysia.

Below is a copy of our Nat Geo Expedition itinerary with some of the highlights and here is a link to all of the Borneo photos that we took and that our guide took throughout the trip:

Day 1 — Arrive Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia

We arrived in Sabah’s capital city, Kota Kinabalu—known locally as KK (also very apropos for us Kayla and Kevin newlyweds)—on the northwestern coast of Malaysian Borneo. We stayed at Hyatt Regency Kota Kinabalu in the heart of the city and met our guide for the trip, a native of Borneo, Bedley. We didn’t have much of an agenda on our day of arrival but Kev and I ventured out to a local Chinese spot for some authentic rice noodles in spicy coconut broth with tofu. I also had calamansi juice for the first time. For dinner Bedley took us to another local vegetarian spot for a four course meal.

Day 2 — Arrive Gunung Mulu National Park

The next morning we caught a flight to Gunung Mulu National Park, home to an astonishing network of underground caves set amid jungle-clad mountains, deep canyons, and rivers. “Named a UNESCO World Heritage site for its biodiversity and karst features, the park is dominated by the peaks of Gunung Mulu and Gunung Api.” We walked through one of the largest-known cave passages in the world to explore the enormous Deer Cave and ventured into nearby caves adorned with unusual subterranean flora and limestone formations. At dusk we sat in a viewing area to watch the spectacle of over a million bats exiting the cave in swirling black clouds that kind of looked like giant black strands of DNA.

It was dark and rainy on the walk back but luckily we had headlamps and ponchos/rain jackets and we still spotted critters on the way back including a spiderhunter, an oriental dwarf kingfisher, and two giant walking sticks.

In Mulu we stayed at the Mulu Marriott Resort & Spa which is a super nice resort especially when you consider that you’re literally in the jungle. Our room there was super nice.

Day 3 — Gunung Mulu National Park

We returned to the park the next morning to explore Clearwater Cave and the Cave of the Winds. Instead of walking on a boardwalk in the national park though we hopped on long, thin river boats and cruised down the river to our destination. The Cave of the Winds was given its name based on the fact that there are three openings and you can feel the draft of the wind in certain places. My favorite was Clearwater Cave though because it is amazingly huge. The whole time I couldn’t stop thinking how amazing that it is a natural formation. It kind of felt like Dracula’s cave if Dracula lived in a mansion.

Later, we visited  a village of the forest-dwelling Penan people—one of the last surviving hunter-gatherer tribes in Malaysia. We learned about the Penan’s ancient way of life, which is under threat from commercial logging and deforestation.

Days 4 & 5 — Sandakan/Sepilok/Kinabatangan River

Sunday was our last morning in Mulu before continuing on our Nat Geo expedition in Boreno. Although we didn’t have a morning activity scheduled, we convinced Bedley to take us out for a morning hike. We went back to the Mulu National Park entrance and walked the Botanical trail for two hours.

After lunch we flew to the city of Sandakan on Borneo’s eastern coast for the night and the next morning we headed to the Kabili-Sepilok Forest Reserve. First we took a behind-the-scenes tour of the nearby Bornean Sun Bear Conservation Center and saw the cute little sun bears being released to forage in designated areas. We had a pretty good view, especially with our binoculars. After we visited the orangutan rehabilitation center where orangutans rescued from captivity are reintroduced to the wild. That was also amazing and we got really close to a few of them. They are quite cheeky. Kev even got some footage of a man almost getting pantsed by a large orangutan.

After the conservation center and rehabilitation center we boarded a local boat for a two-hour ride along the Kinabatangan River to our next lodge. We stayed at Sukau Rainforest Lodge, a National Geographic Unique Lodge built by native Borneans to celebrate—and help protect—the riverine rain forest and the communities that depend upon it. At dusk we hoped on an electric-motored boat to look for orangutans, pygmy elephants, and proboscis monkeys and boy were we lucky–we saw all of them! It was literally a dream come true to see a whole herd of pygmy elephants by the edge of the river eating bamboo. We got like twenty feet away, it was so incredible.

Day 6 — Kinabatangan River

We woke up early the next morning for a wildlife sun set cruise where we spotted more proboscis monkeys (the Dutch man looking money with no pantaloones) and long-tailed and pig-tailed macaques. Then we went to Gomantong Caves, home to thousands of bats and swiftlets. It was interesting but the smell of bat/bird dung was a bit overpowering and I was kind of terrified of the millions of cockroaches and giant centipedes scurrying around. eeek!

That afternoon we had the opportunity to meet one-on-one with the lodge’s in-house orangutan expert which was really informative; I love what the eco lodge is doing in terms of education and preservation. At dusk we embarked on another river safari to search for monkeys, owls, and crocodiles. We got the see the pygmy elephants again, a baby crocodile, and a buffy fish owl (with one eye! Bedley said another animal likely spit poison in it’s other eye when the owl was trying to catch it).

Days 7 & 8 — Danum Valley Conservation Area

After Sukau Rainforest, we traveled (plane then car) to the valley of the Danum River, known for its 169 square miles of virtually undisturbed primary rain forest—which offers exceptional wildlife viewing. Bird life is equally diverse, with some 275 recorded species. We stayed at the Borneo Rainforest Lodge which was really nice.

We went on a canopy bridge walk in the late afternoon which was a lot of fun and prepped us for the next day (we also learned that Kevin is kind of afraid of heights tehe).

Day 9 — Danum Valley Conservation Area

The next morning we went on a somewhat strenuous hike but the view was rewarding. On the way our guide also shared that as a punishment, long ago felons used to have to carry wooden tombs of the dead up the mountain and stacked in holes within the limestone. It was super humid and we were sweating profusely, so we stopped on the way down by a waterfall to splash around in a rock-sculpted pool.

That afternoon we went on the canopy bridge for another walk. We were super fortunate to spot a male orangutan climbing high in the trees to a nearby female and we also come across a group of red leaf langurs which are my new fav primates. On the way back from our hike, Bedley and Borneo Rainforest Lodge had a nice surprise for us. We had a romantic snack of fruit and dessert and beer overlooking the river.

We ended the day with an evening hike where we saw a deer, snakes, and a bunch of frogs.

Day 10, April 15 — Kota Kinabalu/Depart

We woke up super early the next morning to see the sun rise over Danum Valley which was a really nice way to end our trip. After a light breakfast we caught a flight back to Kota Kinabalu for the night before catching another flight to continue on to Bali.

Borneo is a beautiful country and being able to go with National Geographic Expeditions was super special. I feel so lucky that we saw almost all of the critters I was hoping to see during the trip including the pygmy elephants, sun bears, proboscis monkeys, and red leaf langurs. The rainforest lodges we stayed at were also all really nice and I felt at peace being out in the wilderness. Lastly, I love the itinerary Nat Geo put together and I’m glad we had an amazing guide that we enjoyed spending an entire week with. I would love to go back to Borneo someday and I definitely plan on going on another trip with National Geographic.

 Also, here is a link if you’re interested in adopting an orangutan and supporting the effort to sustain the endangered species.

Wedding and Honeymoon

On Tuesday April 4, 2017 I married my best friend and boyfriend of six years. I didn’t want a wedding and I wanted to keep things as simple as possible, so we went to the courthouse. Since I am my parent’s only daughter, they really wanted to be there as well, so they flew in the weekend prior.

I was so pleased that everything turned out the way I wanted and it was a stress-free weekend. On Tuesday morning GlamSquad came over to do my hair and makeup and makeup for my mom. After that I threw on my dress and we hopped in an Uber to the courthouse. You can’t make reservations at the courthouse so I was nervous about how long it would take, but luckily with it being a Tuesday, the wait was not long and we were in and out in about two hours. It gave us time to go back to the apartment to have lunch and relax a bit before pictures.
 
I also wasn’t going to do the whole wedding dress thing either, I was going to just get a designer dress that I could wear again but then my friends made valid points that it was my one time to wear a white wedding dress and that the reality is, even if I bought a nice designer dress for the courthouse and pictures, I wouldn’t likely wear it again so I might as well do the wedding dress that we can only wear once. Kev ended up getting a tux too 🙂
We even got a cake 🙂
So anyway, I wore a White by Vera Wang wedding dress and we hired an awesome photographer, Jesse Pafundi, that I found through Instagram to take our photos. I chose the photographer because he does a good job of capturing the surroundings just as much as photographing the couple in a beautiful way. We had him for two hours and we started in SoHo/NoHo for some photos by our favorite street art and then we took a cab to the Highline. We lucked out at the Highline; usually it’s pretty crowded but since it was an overcast day there was hardly anyone there. We also lucked out that though overcast, it didn’t actually rain on us.
 
After pictures, we headed back to the apartment and ordered in pizza while Kev and I finished packing. Then before we knew it, it was time to head to the airport to catch our flight for our honeymoon advernture. The day was a whirlwind but it was perfect and exactly what I wanted.
Since I didn’t want to do the whole wedding thing, Kev and I planned an epic honeymoon. We were gone from April 5th through April 30th and went all over Southeast Asia. Below is a quick recap:
My new fav critter in Boreno, the red leaf monkey. Look at that face!
BORNEO – We started the trip with National Geographic Expeditions in Borneo and stayed in three different rainforest eco lodges and saw a ton of amazing animals in the jungle.
The largest bathtub ever at the Fairmont in Bali
BALI – After several days in Borneo, we flew to Bali where we stayed at the most amazing resort for two nights, the Fairmont Sanur Beach Bali. I have stayed at some really nice hotels before, but nothing as grand as the Fairmont in Bali. I definitely could have stayed there a few more days.
Mandarin fish that we were lucky enough to see at dusk when they come out to spawn
WAKATOBI, INDONESIA — From Bali we made our way to Wakatobi Dive Resort in Wakatobi National Park which is a marine national park in Southeast Sulawesi, Indonesia. The name of Wakatobi is a portmanteau of the four main Tukangbesi Islands: Wangi-wangi, Kaledupa, Tomia, and Binongko. We stayed on a live aboard dive yacht and did 23 dives over six days. We became Nitrox certified on the trip and collectively spent almost a full day under water!

FIJI — After land and sea adventures, we headed to Fiji to relax for a few days before heading back home to the US. We stayed at Koro Sun resort who hooked us up with a beautiful underwater ceremony.
Our honeymoon was amazing and it was truly a trip of a lifetime. While being gone for almost a month was a long time, it went by fast and I would do it all over again and again if I could. If anything, it just fed my desire to explore and see more of the world. Kev and I are already planning our next big trip.